Rules – Dallas Polyamory General Facebook Group


Education, support, and community for those living authentic polyamorous lives in the DFW area.


If you cannot be outed to your friends, we recommend creating an alt profile. Dallas Polyamory is a Closed Group, but Facebook may recommend it to your friends.


Acceptance and the promotion of diversity, equality, and dignity for all is required in all Dallas Polyamory spaces. Anything that is counter to these values will not be tolerated. This includes race, gender, sexual orientation, ethnicity or any other identities.


- Jump in and join our family!
- Post educational and inspirational posts (posts should be related to Polyamory and/or relationships).
- Be supportive!
- Be accepting of all form of non-monogamy in your interaction!
- Be sex positive!
- Always have consent top of mind!
- Be respectful, compassionate & kind!
- Call others by their chosen pronouns.


- Attack, troll or be disrespectful
- Quarrel with anyone
- Bring drama into the group
- Post divisive topics not related to Polyamory.
- Message or friend request without prior permission. Get verbal permission or permission within a thread. However, you may message any admin/mod at any time regarding Dallas Polyamory. Admins/mods will message if there has been a rule violation.
- Send shocking images/language to other members without their prior consent.
- Report any post to FB. Instead, screenshot & message any of the admin/mods.
- Post hate speech, including homophobia, transphobia, ableism, racism, sexism, or anything slut-shaming
- Make posts seeking connections. This includes posts looking for a date, sex or relationship. We do want our members to connect but we are not a hookup site & we do have specific threads where our members can make such posts.
- Post “Add me”, “PM me”, posts.
- Post excessive memes. Non-poly/relationship memes should be placed in the meme thread. Related memes should be limited to 1 a day.
- Post comments that deride any relationship structure, including monogamy or polygamy.
- Post kink related posts. We have a sub-group!
- Copy/share anything in our group to outside without consent from the original poster.
- Discuss the merits or make posts about religion, politics, or candidates.
- Delete your posts. Contact an admin/mod for this. You can however turn off comments.
- Block of ANY admins/mods is not permitted nor can we block any member. Blocking creates a situation where important information cannot be shared.
- Glorify or discuss 420, alcohol or other usages. 420 photography is not permissible. However, mentioning that you are "420 friendly" in our connection threads or discussing medical/mental health use is allowable. Any threads about should start with a *Trigger Warning*
- Post other outside FB groups
- Post anything that is not SFW or that violates Facebook's Terms Of Service.


You may contact any admin/mod to report suspicious or harassing behavior, clarify the rules, or seek readmission in the event you were ejected from the group.

Guidelines for Posting Events

Members may create events on Dallas Polyamory if they follow these guidelines.

  • All events should be sex-positive and maintain the core values of Dallas Polyamory.
  • At events, all attendees should always have consent and safety top of mind!
  • All events should be inclusive for the members that it is posted in. Events may be posted in sub-groups (Sisterhood, Brothers of Non-Monogamy & Radical Rainbows).
  • All events require at least one person that is not under the influence to monitor and oversee the event.
  • Alcohol cannot be consumed by anyone under 21.
  • For home parties, no monies (covers, fees, etc.) may be collected except for the reimbursement of supplies. Asking participants to bring food or drinks is perfectly fine. No host should ever profit monetarily for hosting an event.
  • No gambling events are allowed


  • Kink/sex events can only be posted in Afterdark, and require the approval of any admin/moderator. Please message an admin/ moderator with the event details before posting. Exception: Kink 101 events may be posted in the general group with prior permission.
  • All home kink/BDSM event require a mandatory consent workshop.
  • Minors (under 18+) can not be allowed to attend any after dark party.

Neither Dallas Polyamory or it’s admins or moderators shall be liable to any attendee for injury to person or property incurred as a result of attendance at a event.